Holding On and Letting Go

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I swear if Elena’s fashion in season 6 includes a leather jacket THAT ALONE IS ENOUGH TO BREAK ME

There's some kind of innocence in some of the fandoms but especially when it comes from Stelena fans or damon/ Delena haters....
We think that they are delusional (which in a way they are) but they have this complete belief that they are right, they believe the world works like in fairytales, where there's love at first sight, where you can say you love someone without knowing them...
Us delena shippers and Damon fans are slightly more cynical, we see what the world has done to Damon and we want him to be happy, we've seen the journey he has come on - We believe there isn't such a thing as purely bad and purely good. We recognise growth and the lack of it...
We believe that you need to know the person fully before we say we love them, we need to truely understand them...
I'd like to believe in fairy tales but I'm not that person, I think you truely need to know someone, the good, the evil that's inside of them, you need to understand them, and you need to recognise when they are trying or when they do bad things for good reasons....